Taylor's Hands-on Guide To
Ruined Orgasms

Abandoning

This method is also known as
a "Hands-Free" or a "No Touch Orgasm".

This was the sole commonly known method ruining an orgasm for many, many years in the Tease & Denial community. It was a method that would finally end the denial but do so in an very unsatisfying manner.

Ruining a male's orgasm after extended periods of denial can be much more psychologically damaging as it inflates the hopes and causes the feeling of extreme elation until suddenly all is lost and the clock is reset so to speak. This happens without the hugely memorable "monster" orgasm that is to be expected from sustained denial.

Some men begin to enjoy the teasing aspect of the denial period and take it in stride as they emotionally build upon that hope of the future reelase of all that pressure. Turning the tables on him can put control back 100% in her hands.

To perform an abandoned orgasm one lets go of the cock and halts all stimulation right at the moment of orgasm or a few beats before but at a point where there is no return and lets the cock just spasm, jerk and bob its way through an extremly unsatisfying orgasm.

Thumbing

A one-handed, thumbwrestling like manuever where you use your thumb to cover the urethra during or when you anticipate a forthcoming orgasm. This method is the easiest and one of the most common because it can be applied from most standard jerking hand positions. Its also easily applied when trying to surprise or "spring" a ruined orgasm on the male.

The goal of thumbing is to to block the flow of ejaculate but it is much more than that as is true with all ruined orgasms if executely properly. There is a group that says blocking the flow of ejaculate completely can cause permanent
internal damage to the
"oh so sensitive" male organs. There's another faction that insists there is no damage that could take place during a thumbing or any other method designed to block the ejaculate flow.
In reality
BOTH SIDES COMPLETELY MISS THE POINT BEHIND RUINED ORGASMS.

Rewarding
Theatrics
Trust
Oblivious
Drama
Unaware
Pressure
Impending
Exctasy
Precipice
Fail-Safe
Misdirection
Surprise
Shock
Horror
Dominated

Its all a cruel, but VERY funny, game and in the end the harder you laugh at him the better you are at it.

Stroking the cock while also keeping the thumb firmly across the head allowing an air tight constrictive seal so if the cock is pleasured enough the ejaculate won't even make it to the surface but will be forced to stay below.

The sensation the man gets from this is one of constant escalation without ever feeling like the apex has been hit but only that it is inevitable.

The removal of the thumb brings no relief and after a moment or so the resticted cum will lazily come out of the head but have no discernable velocity.

Dictating

In manner very similar to thumbing when the orgasm begins the ruinater simply places the tip of the forefinger of the idle or less active hand over the escaping fluid until the hole is blocked tight.

This method needs some practice to master because squirming on the part of the one attached to the cock can break the seal if not careful.

This method obviously derives from dictating but a foreign object is introduced either during the session or brought in suddenly for shock value and i used to block the stream of ejaculate. This can be most unsatisfying and sometimes painful.
A cube of ice, the end of a dildo, a shoe or an ordinary shotglass are examples.
Foreign dictating does not include the act of insertion.(see Dutching)

Poppers Stoppers are a highly annoying way to have an orgasm ruined as it usually means the end of human touch on the penis as some object that is nearby is placed in the path of the ejaculate forcing it to stop leaving the body completely. This is usually accompanyied with cackles and hoots of laughter on her part.

Palming/Cupping

This is an alternative to thumbing or dictating for really big cocks where a thumb or forefinger will not suffice in blocking the span of the hole sufficiently so the palm of the hand is used with the other hand usually used to subdue the overly large member.

Of course it can be used with pretty much any size cock but really the move is born out of necessity with the large member and with the smallish one it becomes simply a personal style.

A second reason palming can be effective in playing with the head of a victim it can hide the head of the cock from view so he can't see what's happening to him. If he's been properly prepared before hand he's probably uber-sensitive and can't correctly discern what is going on. This may be a good opportunity to "pretend" you are putting a piece of proken glass, a burning ember or a dollop of IcyHot in your palm and make sure he sees it a split second before you slam your hand down on the head.
ITS EVEN FUNNIER THAN IT SOUNDS AND IT REALLY RUINS THAT ORGASM FOR HIM!

Bleeding

This somewhat difficult procedure consists of riding the edge for a sustained period and keeping him from having a full orgasm. This becomes an excrutiatingly uncomfortable kind of ruined orgasm that can be achieved using various methods.

Bleeding entails the liberal extracting of precum.

The cock can be brought to the edge or just beyond and then use a method like squelching to halt the progress but some cum will come forth. If this is done over and over until the fluid stops coming forth then the cock can be pleasured to a very awkward, even painful dry orgasm.

The orgasm that results after bleeding is is one not hoped for because the longer the bleeding sessionlasts the more uncomfortable or outright painful it will be. It can often be associated with excessive burning sensations.


Frequently the cock will stay in a hard erect state yet still never go fully limp. This can approach the sensational discomfort Post Orgasm Cock Torture can provide.

Recycling

This process is frequently coupled with excessive bleeding as the aformentioned liberal amounts of pre-ejaculate is then reused or recycled back into the jerking session as a lubricant.

The sticky warm liquid has a very awkward feel when used on the cock it came out of to produce even more.

The burning sensation thats associated with bleeding frequenlty comes from cum being used to stimulate the cock further repeatedly over hours.

Scrunching

This is when the head or upper part of the cock is taken in hand or between multiple fingers and squeezed or "scrunched" as to not let any ejaculate flow freely. If held long enough the orgasm will not reach maturity and therefore be very awkward and uncomfortable.


Precision is not a requisite with this method only a tight grip is needed so its perfect for the rookie or if you are wearing some sort of thick gloves.

This method has the same theory and effect as scrunching but the pressure is applied to the ballsack and then had against the base of the cock cutting off all semen and all pleasure.

Freezing/Alcohol
BenGay/IcyHot